I look forward to the nightly calls from my dear husband.  They are a time to connect and unload.  Last night, we had a bad connection.  So maybe I didn't hear him right when he said I need a girlfriend nearby that I can call and chat with.  He didn't say it meaning I can't talk to him--don't get me wrong.  I think he's just worried that I will continue to depend on the wonderful on-line friends I've made and not make an effort to make new friends.

A little background:  its been MONTHS since I have had an IRL friend actually NEARBY!  And, if I am honest, YEARS since I've really had like-minded friendship nearby.  I know without a doubt that I can find that where we now live.  However, I am NOT the type of person to just call up someone I've met once or twice and chatted with for about 5 minutes at a church function.  It takes more time for me since I'm a tad withdrawn.  I'm not really 'shy'--it just takes me a while sometimes.  I know I'll get there and, of course, I want a close friend nearby more than anything.

I also know I did not move here primarily for my social life so if it takes a few months to develop relationships--so be it.  Time is on my side.